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Käßmann: Warum die Liebe im reifen Alter schöner ist

Petra Koruhn
| Lesedauer: 10 Minuten
Margot Käßmann spricht in ihrem neuen Buch „Mit mutigem Schritt zurück zum Glück“ (Droemer Knaur) auch über ihre wiedergefundene Jugendliebe.

Margot Käßmann spricht in ihrem neuen Buch „Mit mutigem Schritt zurück zum Glück“ (Droemer Knaur) auch über ihre wiedergefundene Jugendliebe.

Foto: Daniel Karmann / dpa

Berlin.  Scheidung, Brustkrebs, Alkoholfahrt – doch jetzt ist Ex-Bischöfin Margot Käßmann an der Seite eines neuen Partners wieder glücklich.

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Margot Käßmann: „Ich bin über mich selbst erschrocken“µ

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Der Mann an ihrer Seite ist ihre Jugendliebe

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Wiedersehen nach vierzig Jahren

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Beide waren 26 Jahre verheiratet, beide sind Eltern von vier Kindern

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Ein Buch, um anderen Mut zu machen

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Eine neue Liebe hatte sie nicht eingeplant

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Ein Datingportal wäre nichts für Käßmann

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Im Alter akzeptiert man, dass der andere Macken hat

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