„Granny Aupair“: Als Leihoma von Thüringen nach Shanghai

Ulrike Kern
| Lesedauer: 8 Minuten
Marion Gröschel (66), mit eingegipsten Händen in ihrem Haus in  Meusebach (Saale-Holzland-Kreis), war als „Granny Aupair“  von Oktober vergangenen Jahres bis Januar in Shanghai.

Marion Gröschel (66), mit eingegipsten Händen in ihrem Haus in  Meusebach (Saale-Holzland-Kreis), war als „Granny Aupair“  von Oktober vergangenen Jahres bis Januar in Shanghai.

Foto: Ulrike Kern

Meusebach  Die pensionierte Lehrerin Marion Gröschel (66) aus Meusebach hat sich einen Traum erfüllt und ist in eine fremde Familie und Kultur eingetaucht.

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