C‘est la vie: Barbara Thériault über die Magie der heimlichen Hochzeit

Barbara Thériault
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Heiraten liegt im Trend: Allein im Erfurter Standesamt werden jährlich mehr als 1000 Ehen geschlossen. Fotomontage: Andreas Wetzel

Heiraten liegt im Trend: Allein im Erfurter Standesamt werden jährlich mehr als 1000 Ehen geschlossen. Fotomontage: Andreas Wetzel

Foto: Andreas Wetzel

Erfurt  Thüringer sind durchaus ehefreudig. Gänzlich im Dunkeln aber liegt die Zahl derer, die heimlich heiraten. Über das magische Schweigen der heimlichen Bünde schreibt Barbara Thériault in der Serie „C’est la vie“.

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